When Silence Hurts

It seemed God was silent—that our cries were not being heard. We prayed for a year for healing of our loved one, but God did not answer in the way we wanted. Have you ever felt that way? Have you in desperation cried out to Jesus on behalf of a son, daughter or loved one only to feel you had no response from Him at all or an undesired response? In those moments, it would be so easy to give up and doubt God. But even in those moments of perceived silence that cause pain, God is there. He is listening.

Perhaps He is waiting for something that has not yet occurred. That is why it is so important to press on, to be persistent in speaking to Jesus in prayer and believing by faith that He will supply the answers to prayers for others.

As Jesus went from place-to-place teaching, the Scribes and Pharisees constantly confronted him as they tried to discredit Him. He was not only teaching but performing miracles of healing. Power exuded from Him as His word healed. All Jesus had to do was speak a word, and it was so. He did not need to be in the presence of what His word commanded for it to be so.

Such was the case when a mother approached Him desperately seeking help for her daughter. She was a Gentile woman whose daughter was possessed. She knelt before Jesus asking Him to help her, believing that He could heal her daughter. But Jesus was silent. (Matthew 15:23) Yet, in the pain from His silence, the woman persisted. Jesus then saw faith in her persistence and said, “Oh woman, great is your faith. Be it done for you as you desire”. (Matthew 15:28) The daughter was not present in this scene. But Jesus spoke from a distance, and it was so. In that moment, healing took place.

Perhaps you have been praying for someone with a desperate need for Jesus. This story in Matthew 15 encourages us to press on, to never give up, to be persistent and believe by faith that Jesus will address the situation when the time is right. In fact, He intercedes by His Spirit for the saints. He will answer as God’s word tells us — “according to God’s will”. (Romans 8:27) How awesome is that! Jesus prays for us. We can trust Him to do what is best for the ones being prayed for, even when it is not what we expect.

“…and her daughter was healed from that very hour.” (Matthew 15:28b, NKJV)

(This is an excerpt from the upcoming Bible study, Embracing Faith. Watch for it soon.)

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  1. Teresa A Moyer
    Teresa A Moyer says:

    God answers every prayer in 3 ways…Yes, No, Wait. It is the “wait” answer that is the hardest for us to understand because we do not like to wait and in waiting there is often silence. The silence tests out perseverance in the waiting period.

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